Should I Write a Book?

Tonight I was chatting with a friend and she told me I should write a book about all of the guy drama in my life. I find it interesting that my friends are always so eager to hear what's going on because frankly I think most of it is sad. I'd prefer to just escape the reality but I must have a way of spinning it for humor sake.

Clearly, I'm not going to write a book. I'm a horrible writer which is why I'm hiding my thoughts away in this little blog. So....this seems like a good place to share some the guy drama my friends are finding so entertaining. Obviously, I'll use nicknames in this case.

Roughrider is a guy I met a little over a year ago. This was the first time I ever met someone and actually felt that little spark. Silly, yes I know. None the less, it was there. I connected with him on a level I really didn't think was possible, only to find out he's connecting with multiple women on a similar level. ha! After a few months back and forth...talking, not talking, talking we actually started to form a pretty good friendship. Fast forward to this week, he's been dating this one girl since Thanksgiving. I think she's a little dose of crazy wrapped up in a sweet little package. Although he seem hesitant about where they're going, he continues to move the relationship along. They're moving in together this month. That was tough to swallow. After a recent event my exposure to her was maxed out. I fear this may have created enough problem to put the necessary distance between one of my newest, closest friends.

Weiner is a recent addition. We met a couple months ago through a mutual friend. Basically, he just doesn't want to be alone and has taken to me. Although I know he would probably do anything for me, take me anywhere or buy me anything if I really asked.....there's just no connection. For some people this may be enough. I know it's tempting but...

Butcher is a coworker. The one dude I was definitely intrigued with initially. Over the course of my time there I've learned he has quite a history among the women in the company, and even more out. I believe he recently hit rock bottom and unsure if he had much support elsewhere I stepped up. He's incredibly polite and intelligent beyond my understanding. His quirks which are somewhat a turnoff are somehow endearing. The dilemma...he's a coworker. In a small environment it just spells disaster. Plus, he needs time to deal with the series of events he's recently encountered. In the meantime, we enjoy a few fancy drinks.

For the better part of my adult life I've wanted desperately to be in a relationship. I do envy my married friends. To be honest....the dating thing sucks. I'd prefer to just skip that and go straight into the steady comfortable relationship. It looks like I'll just remain single, and free for now!